Friday, July 17, 2009

The Mayonnaise Jar and Two Cups Of Coffee

When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in a day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar and the two cups of coffee.

A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front of him. When the class began, wordlessly, he picked up a very large and empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls.

He then asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.

The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar. He shook the jar lightly.

The pebbles rolled into the open areas between the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They agreed it was.

The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar was full. The students responded with a unanimous "yes".

The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and poured the entire contents into the jar, effectively filling the empty space between the sand. The students laughed.

"Now," said the professor, as the laughter subsided, " I want you to recognize that this jar represents your life.

The golf balls are the important things in life. Your God, your family, your children, your health, your friends, and your favorite passions: things that if everything else was lost and only they remained, your life would still be full.

The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house, and your car.

The sand is everything else: the small stuff.

"If you put the sand into the jar first," he continued, "there is no room for the pebbles or the golf balls.

The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy on the small stuff, you will never have room for the things that are important to you.

Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Play with your children. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your partner out to dinner. Play another 18.

There will always be time to clean house and fix the disposal.

Take care of the golf balls first; the things that really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand.

One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee represented.

The professor smiled. "I'm glad you asked. It just goes to show you that no matter how full your life may seem, there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend."


Debbie in CA : ) said...

I needed to hear this!!!! I have a special guest arriving in a few days it is TOO HOT and everyone seems to be running topsy-turvy today . . .

I believe I will substitute tea for the coffee and smile my way through it all.

Thanks dear friend . . . you saved my sanity! : D

Linda said...

You are so welcome, Debbie in CA! I'm happy when I can help someone.

It isn't hot here at all today, and we are supposed to have a nice weekend. However, we did have a horrendous hail storm yesterday. My beautiful tomato plants are gone. I have big holes in my siding. The 'eyes' of the TV dish are broken. (That may be a good thing!) Insurance has been called, so things will eventually be back to normal! Whatever 'normal' is!

Snigglefrits said...

Hail is annoying as its synonym. Last year we had beautiful corn, squash, cucumbers and tomato plants. One hailstorm and a bit of wind was all it took. What was standing looked like it had been shot with buckshot.

I can only imagine what farmers who do that for their livelihood must feel like after a storm wipes out their crops.

Hope things are back to "normal" soon, Linda!